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June 2017 Favorites Video

 

Whoa! It has been a hot minute since I’ve posted a monthly favorites video. I’m pretty excited to share these products since they’ve been on repeat since the beginning of summer. Most of the products in this June 2017 Favorites video are perfect for that summer glow. Lots of bronze and glow going on and I’m sharing my favorites to achieve that “just back from vacation” look.

Enjoy!


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Denim Jumpsuit and The Three Letter Word No One Wants to Hear

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Abercrombie & Fitch Jumpsuit • Soludos Espadrilles • Madewell Earrings • Amazon Basket • Madewell Bandana (obsessed with these – I have 3!) • Ray-Ban Sunglasses • NARS Lipstick (in Lana)

Internet Bullies and A Denim Jumpsuit

What is it about social media that gives people the courage to voice a harsh opinion without any regard to the person in the image? I never understood why people felt the need to critique influencers or other people on the internet visibly for all to see. I see a lot of cruel comments on social media but I had yet to fall victim to internet bullying. That is until recently. I was pretty excited to share these images of this crazy good denim jumpsuit from Abercrombie & Fitch. I loved the lip color I had on and just the overall vibe of the photos (thanks to Beckley & Co.). So imagine my excitement when Abercrombie actually regrammed my image. I was ecstatic!

But someone on the internet didn’t share the same sentiment when they came across my photo. When I went back to check the photo, I saw something I wasn’t ready for. There it was, the three letter word no one wants to be called – fat.

How to Deal

Some guy decided I wasn’t skinny enough to be on the Abercrombie Instagram handle or the internet, for that matter. And just to make things worse, another girl replied to his comment with “Apparently fat is fashion.” So now, not only had someone just flat out called me fat, but a second person (a female!) had added insult to injury.

At first, I didn’t know how to react. Do I cry? Do I reply back? Do I blast them both on the internet for being internet bullies and let other people rip them apart? That is assuming others didn’t feel the same as them. I looked at the photo over and over again, zooming in and out, analyzing the denim jumpsuit I was wearing to see what about the photo made someone take time out of their day to comment something so cruel.

I’m by no means skinny. I’m well aware I have curves. But I’m also petite. I’m a pretty tiny person with rather large boobs and I’ve always been “the small one”. But I haven’t taken care of myself… ever. I hate working out (so I don’t) and I eat like shit. So yeah, now that I’m 30 a lot of that is catching up to me. But up until recently, I didn’t care. I know my arms have cellulite and I know I’ve developed more curves where one doesn’t usually want them – stomach and love handles. But I was ok with all of it.

Because I’m petite (4’11”), I never had much of a “body” when I was younger. I always had boobs, but never a butt or hips to match. I used to wear children’s sizes in jeans up until college because I couldn’t fit into adult sizes. So when I started to develop curves, I loved it! Finally, a body to match my boobs lol. So my secondary response to this guy’s “fat” comment after I had dwelled on all of this… “So?”.

Love Yourself

Who cares! Why the f*** does this person care if I am “fat”? So when it really came down to it, I guess I was upset that this person decided it was ok to decide who was “fat”. How dare this man not only make me question my own self-esteem but also for writing a comment that potentially could have affected thousands of other women. Not ok. It’s not ok to just call people “fat” no matter what size they are. Every(body) is beautiful. And imagine if we all walked around looking exactly the same, all the same size? How boring would that be? Our bodies wouldn’t be unique or special.

And then I became even more upset realizing that this probably wasn’t the first mean comment this guy has left on social media. This one person has probably affected several (maybe hundreds!) of other women and toyed with their self-esteem. What a guy, huh?

So my point of this super long rant is to love yourself and your body. If planning to make changes and adjustments to your body, do it for a healthier lifestyle and to take care of yourself – not to fit an image that someone else thinks you should be. There will always be bullies, but love yourself and let the negativity bounce right off of you. You’d be surprised how empowering it is to rise above that kind of negativity.

Also, I ultimately chose not to blast these two lovely individuals on social media. Because internet bullying of any kind is not ok – even if it is in retaliation for the greater good. Remember, hate does not drive out hate. I did, however, consider sending them both a boomerang of me stuffing my face with a burger lol. I finally just decided to let it go.

Peace and love. Out. ✌🏼


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Striped One Shoulder Top

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The temps are definitely starting to heat up so this may be the last time you’ll see me in jeans through the rest of summer. Ha! Give me all the cut-offs and mini dresses. But this striped one shoulder top is perfect for warmer temps. I’ve already paired it with these wide-leg cropped jeans and these high-waisted shorts.

I was introduced to XO Mandy Sue, an adorable online boutique, on Instagram and had to have this top when I saw it. And great news! XO Mandy Sue is offering a discount code for all of you! Just use the code JACLYN25 to receive 25% off your order! I’m currently craving these pants to pair with flounce crop tops for summer and this dress for warm weekends. Check them out and tell me what you think!

How was everyone’s weekend? Mine was sadly spent on the couch beating a migraine. The worst. I’ve suffered from migraines for years and most of the time sleep is the only thing that helps. But caffeine and ice rolling have definitely helped in a quicker migraine recovery. I finally snapped out of it Sunday afternoon. Phew! We tried out a new Japanese BBQ restaurant that was so good. Gotta love finding new gems in the city. It’s in Deep Ellum for all you Dallas peeps out there. 😉

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Psst… Check out more casual summer outfits ideas here and here! You can also shop my summer picks in The Summer Shop!


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5 Must-Have Anthropologie Summer Dresses On Sale Now

Brooke Eyelet Swing Dress

All-over eyelets and pretty flutter sleeves make this swing silhouette a summer must-have.

 


Delois Tiered Maxi Dress

The most stunning eyelet maxi dress for roaming the streets on your next warm weather vacation.

 


Deep-V Striped Dress

With a deep v-neck and a nautically inspired stripe, this versatile midi is light and airy enough for summer outings.

 


Gustavia Dress

The prettiest white dress I ever did see. This dress was made for long walks on the beach with a fresh coconut in hand.

 


Audre Tie-Back Dress

Nothing beats a black maxi dress for summer. Pair with slides and a straw hat for the ultimate vacation look.

 


Shop more Anthropologie summer sale picks below!


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My Favorite Summer Co-Ord Sets

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Is it just me or does life feel like it never slows down? What a week. But hey, it’s Friday, it’s summer and summertime keeps me smiling from ear to ear. I just need to soak in that vitamin D to feel that feeling of summer bliss. These days, I’m all about being outdoors and feeling those rays. I live for bare shoulders, flowing styles and a feeling of being relaxed and free. This summer co-ord does just that for me. It’s comfortable and breezy making it the perfect summer outfit. Not to mention that it pairs well with one of my many basket bags (it’s an addiction, I know). So now I guess I can add summer co-ord sets to my many loves this summer.

All the Co-ords

This floral co-ord is hands down my favorite affordable set. Prepare to live in it the rest of summer because it’s that comfortable. The high-waisted skirt makes it easy to pair with the crop top without feeling like your stomach is hanging out. In other words, no excessive midriff here! I’ve actually been pairing this floral ruffle tube top with high waisted shorts like these and these on weekends and it’s probably my favorite lazy day, grab a beer and hang out kind of outfit.

There are a ton of great summer co-ord sets available like this one (love the red) and this one. And don’t even get me started on this stunner of a set. 😍 You can find more cute sets for summer below!

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AEO Top  •  AEO Skirt  •  LOFT Sandals  •  MADEWELL Earrings  •  ETSY Bag  •  RAY-BAN Sunglasses